data recovery

I have had to change my passcode a few times (sneaky children) and honest mistake, I forgot the code. Eventually disabled. I have read a few community questions and it seems your data is lost forever should it not be backed up.

If there is a high demand for this, why doesn't apple just create a recover program to do this? You've got enough points of identification and passcodes and face recognition and technology to figure this out. Why is it there is refusal to do this? Or is it easier to jump to a simple android that will somewhat be easier to use? Probably. So not a question but a statement because I feel like all Im going to get back is, "tough luck, you've learnt your lesson now" f off, I'm not a child. Just give me back my photos from the last 6 months.