No matter how many times you say "Big Sur is inherently unstable," it simply isn't true.
Millions of people around the world use it daily with no issues whatsoever, and if were as unstable as you claim it to be, a lot more people would be complaining.
Your car comment is interesting, as the very first thing a new car dealer would do is remove anything you may have added, so have you checked to see if the same issues occur if you a full erase, perform a completely new installation of the OS and install absolutely zero software and login as a brand new user? That's the state in which Apple supplies computers and is most analogous to a new car you would take back to the dealer.
If you don't want to use diagnostic tools, there is only one thing left you can do:
Contact - Official Apple Support
or if you don't want to go that route, let Apple know if your dissatisfaction (they aren't here) at this link:
Feedback - macOS - Apple
No one here can help you if you aren't willing to help yourself.
Since day one Big Sur has been the most stable release of macOS I've ever used, and I've been using Macs since 1988.
If you want to burden your users by forcing them to use Windows, feel free - and it literally matters to no one here as we are just fellow Apple users trying to help others.