My phone is disabled connect to iTunes

You will need to restore the phone using a computer. the process will erase the device. Later you can restore your data from a recent back-up. Instructions here...

If you forgot the passcode on your iPhone, or your iPhone is disabled - Apple Support

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Connect your iPhone to iTunes using these steps.

If you forgot the passcode on your iPhone, or your iPhone is disabled -

https://support.apple.com/en-us/HT204306