Can I share apple one with my family if we live in different countries?

See Share purchases with others in your Family Sharing group - Apple Support

"To share purchases, family members must be in the same iTunes Store country or region."

You cannot as all members of the family must be in the same country/region as per -- Share App Store, iTunes Store, and Apple Books purchases with Family Sharing - Apple Support.... "Not all content and content types are available in all countries or regions