Hello my daughter purchased things without asking

Hi Eleann-,

Welcome to the Apple community,

where some of us do our best to help each other.

Wondering if this was a purchase from iTunes, App Store, or another kind of purchase.

This may or may not work for you, as I do not know what country you are making purchases from.

How to request a refund

1. Go to reportaproblem.apple.com. 
2. Sign in with your Apple ID and password.
3. If you see the "Report" or "Report a Problem" button next to the item that you want to request a refund for, click it.
4. Follow the instructions on the page to choose the reason why you want a refund and submit your request.

If that doesn't work for you:

, you might want to click on the "Get Support" link at the right on the top of this page to contact Apple.

or

Get a refund for purchases made with credit or debit cards using Apple Pay 

Also, if you want, you can set up:

Approve what kids buy with Ask to Buy

https://support.apple.com/en-us/HT201089

All the best.