How do I look for malware on my iPhone and avoid getting scammed?

Clicking on a link doesn’t wiretap your iPhone. Contact law enforcement.

“Don't answer suspicious phone calls or click on messages claiming to be from Apple. Instead, contact Apple directly through our official support channels.”

”To report a suspicious SMS text message that looks like it's supposed to be from Apple, take a screenshot of the message and email the screenshot to reportphishing@apple.com.”

You can report phishing at these links and most importantly your local law enforcement.

• Identify legitimate emails from the App Store or iTunes Store.
• FTC Complaint Assistant
• FBI’s Internet Crime Complaint Center

Learn about how not to be a victim of Social Engineering.

Recognize and avoid social engineering schemes including phishing messages, phony support calls, and other scams - Apple Support

Wiretapping is illegal and not something easily done unless someone has direct access to the device. Clicking on a link doesn’t enable listening in on your device.

Your local law enforcement will be your best resource moving forward. They can offer more educational material and also provide additional information on your suspicions.

Why does it "seem like"?