Not sure if the Apple ID on my iPad

Have you checked Settings/Your Name to see what Apple ID is used there? Checked Settings/Messages and Settings/FaceTime?

If you don't know what ID is on your iPad, if you reset the iPad, you will have an Activation Lock asking for the ID.

Do a backup and try a factory reset. Then restore from your backup.

Restore to Factory setting.      *

Restore - If you see an error when you update or restore your iPhone, iPad, or iPod.   *

Backup - Restore your device from an iCloud or iTunes backup.     *

See if you can recover the ID/password. Use every email address you can think of.

Apple ID - How to find your Apple  -  An iCloud e-mail address is an Apple ID.

Apple ID - Find  -       

If you forgot the Apple ID (iCloud) password, enter the Apple (iCloud) ID, and click Forgot Password. See if you can get a Rescue or Notification email option if necessary. Link to contact Apple Support at the end of the 2nd article.

Apple ID - Manage  -     

Apple ID – Forgot Password  *      

dama211 wrote:

Is it possible just to call you? What is the phone number I can reach you?

thanks

Contact Apple for support and service --> "See a list of Apple phone numbers around the world." Click here --> https://support.apple.com/HT201232