Can I upgrade a Mac Mini (late 2014) with 8g ram with another 8g?

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Jack

There really is no need to add RAM, your computer has a built in system to makeup for the amount needed. Open Launchpad and Search Activity Monitor > Memory You will see at the bottom "Swap Used". If you run out of RAM the computer uses a part of your HD as a swap file, like Linux has. See my screenshot below.:

You are welcome. Is the cursor mouse hooked up via USB chord, Dongle or Bluetooth. If you are still using the original HD it could be slowing things down. Recommend an SSD or NVMe for speed. As to the third party software, I have no used for them and have no recommendations, sorry.

No sorry, the 2014 Mac Mini's RAM is intergrated into the logic board and can not be upgraded.

see > https://support.apple.com/en-us/HT205041

Recommend a USB mouse with chord. Mine is a Logitech M100.