it is not allowing me to update payment method, says i need to contact apple support

Contact iTunes Support for assistance. See the Apple Support articles below for contact information.   

iTunes Support – world wide   -

Apple Support schedule phone call     -

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If necessary, try Twitter

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Click here and ask the iTunes Store staff for assistance.

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