says i have been sent to many verification codes but i never received any

See if anything here helps.  If necessary, you can use account recovery as explained in the link at bottom of the article.

Verification code - how to get one and sign in with two-factor authentication.   *

lewy1958 wrote:

how do i get verification code..not coming thru my new phone

Look here If you can't send or receive messages on your iPhone, iPad, or iPod touch - Apple Support