Hi Ejdj23,
welcome to the Apple (user-to-user) Community.
Re: My magnifier looks at ME ! How do I turn it around ?
Am no expert in this area, yet your question surely deserves a response.
Apple support have articles online that may help in taking control of the magnifier
Eg: you can add controls, change the camera, and more
Change Magnifier settings on iPhone – Apple Support
How to: Receive image descriptions of your surroundings in Magnifier on iPhone - Apple Support
you can zoom in on and detect objects near you:
Use Magnifier on your iPhone or iPad - Apple Support
How to: Detect people around you using Magnifier on iPhone - Apple Support
if you want: you can save your preferred Magnifier controls:
Create activities in Magnifier on iPhone – Apple Support
All the best :-)