Ipod is disabled and I was told to go to Itunes...after so many hours here I am!!!!!

This is primarily a user-to-user support forum; other Apple users like you. This is not "iTunes." No one here sent you any emails or texts. If your iPod is disabled, turn it off and use a cable to connect it with a computer as described in If you forgot your iPad passcode, use your Mac or PC to reset it - Apple Support and following the instructions there. If that doesn't work, reply with details about which step in those instructions isn't working for you and details of what is happening.

This is primarily a user-to-user support forum; other Apple users like you.

Click on the following for instructions: If you forgot your iPad passcode, use your Mac or PC to reset it - Apple Support