How to how to stop your iPhone from auto playing in your car

There was an older thread here that was missing a step.

Please see the below steps:

• Open Shortcuts app
• Tap "Automation" at the bottom center of the screen
• Tap "Create Personal Automation"
• Tap "Bluetooth"
• Tap "Choose" under Device and select your car
• Tap "Done"
• Tap "Next"
• Tap “Create a new action“
• Tap "Add Action"
• Tap "Media"
• Scroll down to the Playback section and tap "Play/Pause"
• Tap "Play/Pause" on the top of this screen and choose "Pause"
• Tap "Done"

I followed these steps and it works like a charm. Thanks for not helping Apple!