Re: "every time i download something it says i need to add a payment option
but when i do it says i need to add another one and now i cant install or update any apps
We are all Apple users. like yourself, in the community, so no-one here has access to your accounts or details to see what the situation is, that is causing you difficulty. We'd like to help, however.
Eg: Wondering if Apple Support's online article(s) can help you resolve the situation.
See what to do:If you can’t download or update apps on your iPhone or iPad - Apple Support
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Re: "I put in my debit card and it still doesn’t work and I’ve tried multiple things"
To check which payment methods that Apple can accept in your country or region:
Payment methods that you can use with your Apple Account - Apple Support
How to add an Apple Account payment method:
Add a payment method to your Apple Account - Apple Support
How to change an Apple ID payment method:
If you need to change or update your Apple Account payment method - Apple Support
How to delete an Apple ID payment method:
Remove a payment method from your Apple Account - Apple Support
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More trouble-shooting: There may be an unpaid order causing difficulty:
See: If a message says 'billing problem with previous purchase' or 'verification required' - Apple Support
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For help or support from Apple Support : (info. / support / contact options etc.)
✽ Billing and Subscriptions Website:
You can use the "Get support - start now" link (online chat / phone / email etc,) if you scroll to the bottom
Subscriptions and Billing - Official Apple Support
or
✽ Apple Account Support website: Apple Account - Official Apple Support