So to summarize - and so you can correct me if I get this wrong, because information has been coming in a trickle here:
- Your former employer accessed your work computer (which they are authorized to do because they own it), but you had personal passwords stored on it;
- You believe your employer gave that information to his cousin (a "skilled hacker");
- You have reason to believe that the cousin and/or ex-boss entered your home without your permission and tampered with you personal computer without your permission. Because they had physical access to your computer and your house you are concerned they may have implanted spyware on your computer, cameras or other monitoring devices in your house and compromised all of your online passwords.
If this is correct, then - depending on the laws in the country you live in - a number of criminal laws may have been broken, including criminal trespass, burglary, and various computer crimes. The fact your door was unlocked is irrelevant )although police will probably give you a hard time about it)
You may also have (if they did implant spyware or install devices in your home) evidence for a criminal harassment and/or stalking complaint. I don't want to make assumptions, but based on your community username and your characterization of your ex-boss as a "creep", I suspect some inappropriate behaviour at work from this ex-boss?
At a minimum, you need to wipe that Mac and reinstall everything from scratch, and change all your online passwords afterwards (or at least not ever use that computer to access anything until it is wiped once you change passwords, in case of a keylogger being on it). You should also thoroughly sweep your house for anything out of place.
But really, if you think this person was in your house and tampering with anything, you should consider making a criminal complaint to the police.