How to force incoming calendar invites into a specific calendar

Hi

Both my wife and I only use the Apple Calendar app. We both have our main ‘home’ calendar set as default everywhere in all settings and set to the colour blue. When she sends me a meeting invite it never goes to my ‘home’ blue coloured calendar but instead goes to one I created called ‘work’ coloured green.

Is there a way to force incoming meeting invites to go into a specific calendar I choose?

Thanks