My understanding is Apple's features for Family Sharing on an Android are minimal. While according to Use Family Sharing with Apple Music on Android - Apple Support
you can have a child in the family for sharing Apple Music, it may be possible this doesn't extend to other Fmaily Sharing features such as Ask To Buy. Contact Apple and ask them.
Refer to this page for Apple Support features ➔ Contact - Official Apple Support
Select from the presented options until you find a solution for your issue, or see if there is a chat or phone call contact method offered lower on the page under “Get more help” (you sometimes have to narrow down the options multiple times before this is shown). If you do not see your issue, keep experimenting with any series of selections until you reach one that offers a chat session or a telephone call and get the representative to redirect you.
This support article has various country telephone numbers for contacting Apple for support and service ➔ Contact Apple Support - Apple Support For some countries look under “Other” listing at the end of the list. Not every country has telephone support, and phone numbers may only work when calling from the same country.