I am getting phone calls telling me my apple id has been hacked, is that you?

This is primarily a user-to-user support forum; other Apple users like you. It is a scam. Apple doesn't make unsolicited phone calls. If there was a problem you would be notified when attempting to log in, including when logging into this forum. Also see: Recognize and avoid phishing messages, phony support calls, and other scams - Apple Support

One option to consider is Settings > Phone > Silence Unknown Callers. See: Detect and block spam phone calls - Apple Support

No, Apple will never "cold call" a customer with that, or any other information. You can safely ignore the call/block the number.