I can’t remember my apple password and I can’t change my password without it

Hi Harley1464,

Welcome to the Apple Community where some of us do our best to help each other :)

Apple support have articles online to help you:

If you forgot your Apple ID password, or have issues when you try to sign in :

https://support.apple.com/en-au/HT201487

if you forgotten the appleID itself :

https://support.apple.com/en-gb/HT201354

If you’ve forgotten the answers to your Apple ID security questions

https://support.apple.com/en-au/HT201485

OR

Still having trouble signing in:

https://iforgot.apple.com/password/verify/appleid

AND

What to do after you change your Apple ID or password:

https://support.apple.com/en-au/HT204071

Hope this helps :)