Monthly recurring charge, What is it?

If you are being charged the same amount every month, as the case here, it sounds like you could have signed up for a subscription. If you have previously taken out a free trial and did not cancel it, then it will have continued into a paid prescription

You can manage and cancel your subscription following the steps at How to cancel a subscription from Apple – Apple Support.

THAts sounds logical and a real solutions idea...but...I dont have any subscriptions ..per apple.

thank you for your time seriously makes e want to pull my hair out lolol

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