Can't remove expired card to update payment method. Really tired of this

To find out how to remove a payment method, and what to do if you can't remove your last payment method or use no payment method with your Apple ID, read this article --> Remove a payment method from your Apple ID - Apple Support

Ongoing subscriptions and Family Sharing organizers must always have a payment method present. To edit the cards used for those you may need to first add the new card and make it the primary payment method before removing the old card (see: If you need to change or update your Apple ID payment method - Apple Support ).

Apple Support Communities is set up as an end-user to end-user technical issue support service (i.e., users like you helping other users). You should be able to easily (and frankly , more quickly) resolve this using the direction in the article I provided. If you must speak with Apple, refer to this document for ways to contact Apple --> Choose your country or region - Official Apple Support

Select your country (also look for "other" regions), then a product. If you don't see one that handles your issue then keep experimenting with selections until you reach one that gets you a chat session or a telephone call and get the representative to redirect you.

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Contact Apple for support and service by telephone --> Contact Apple for support and service - Apple Support