There was a time (in the iTunes area) where you could select where your iPhone backup went. I have mine on a external SSD:


However, I've not found a way to do it via the Finder in the newer systems.
However, a quick AI search on the subject got me this:
"You can change your iPhone backup location by using a symbolic link (symlink) to point the default backup folder to a new location, such as an external drive. This involves moving the existing MobileSync backup folder to your desired location, deleting the original folder, and then creating a new symlink in its place that redirects the system to the new folder.
Step 1: Find the current backup folder
- Connect your iPhone to your Mac.
- Open Finder.
- Click on your iPhone in the Finder sidebar.
- Click the General tab, then click Manage Backups to see the current location of your backups.
- To manually locate the folder, open a new Finder window, select Go > Go to Folder, and type ~/Library/Application Support/MobileSync/Backup/. This path will show you the current backup folder.
Step 2: Relocate the backup folder
- Open a Finder window and navigate to ~/Library/Application Support/MobileSync/. This folder contains the Backup folder.
- Copy the entire Backup folder to your new location (e.g., an external SSD).
- Once the copy is complete, delete the original Backup folder from the ~/Library/Application Support/MobileSync/ directory to free up space.
Step 3: Create the symbolic link
- Open the Terminal application.
- Use the ln -s command. Drag the new Backup folder you moved in Step 2 directly into the Terminal window. This will automatically populate the path.
- After the path to the new folder, type the path to the original MobileSyncfolder, which is ~/Library/Application Support/MobileSync/. The full command should look something like this: ln -s /Volumes/YourExternalDrive/Backup ~/Library/Application\ Support/MobileSync/.
- Press Enter. This creates a symbolic link in the original location that points to the new folder.
Step 4: Verify the new backup location
- In Finder, go back to ~/Library/Application Support/MobileSync/. You should now see a new Backup folder with an arrow icon, indicating it's a symbolic link.
- Back up your iPhone again from the Finder or Apple Devices app to ensure it now saves to the new location.
- You can also check the space on your new drive to confirm it is filling up. Note that the system may still check the main drive for free space before starting a backup."
You might give it a try as it just might work. Be sure to backup the iPhone before you try it and then make a Time Machine backup of your boot drive. That will give you the tools to recover the current backup via Time Machine if the above doesn't work.
